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I don’t usually get nervous going down the stairs into my basement, but every once in a while—as I’m ascending to the kitchen with a basket of clean laundry or a fresh pack of paper towels—I have a sudden urge to race up the last several steps and slam the door behind me, my heart pounding. Nothing is lurking down there; I know this! And yet, even though I’ve lived in my house for nearly 25 years, I’ve never gotten completely comfortable with the shadowy corners of my unfinished basement. I know I’m not alone: A fully grown adult with an irrational fear of a perfectly safe part of my house. What’s the deal? What’s really behind this anxiety, and what can we do about it? I spoke with two therapists to get some insights into what’s behind my occasional—but very real—desire to flee (and not just from the pile of dirty clothes). Why We Find Basements Scary “Psychologically, basements check a lot of boxes that make our brains go on high alert: dark, enclosed, often empty, and not a space we use as often as the rest of the house,” therapist-turned-designer Anita Yokota says. “We’re naturally wired to feel more cautious in spaces where we can't see well or where escape routes feel limited.” “If you were ever afraid of your basement as a kid, that fear can linger subconsciously, even when you know rationally that nothing is there, adds Yokota, a licensed marriage and family therapist who blends psychology, neuroscience, and design to help people create homes that support their well-being. “Because they’re tucked away, basements can feel a little detached from the rest of the home, which makes them feel…different.” Janet Bayramyan, LCSW, a psychotherapist and certified trauma therapist based in Los Angeles, concurs that this fear is often something that’s not coming from the rational, adult part of our brains. "We all have an inner child; we have an inner teenager!” she says. And sometimes, when we’re feeling a little more vulnerable, she explains, our inner child can come out and say, “I’m really afraid of this space.” “Basements can also bring up the fear of the unknown,” Bayramyan adds. “That’s actually a common fear, particularly in children.” She also notes that if, like me, you didn’t grow up in a place where basements were very common, you might find them especially spooky as an adult. Basements Speak to Unfamiliarity “Horror movies, scary stories, and pop culture have turned basements into classic ‘scary’ spaces,” Yokota says. “Many of us grew up watching characters descend into basements only for something terrifying to happen, so even though we know it’s fiction, it still influences how we feel about those spaces in real life.” They’re also usually a place where we don’t spend much time—they’re part of our homes, but they’re not really part of the “living” space, Bayramyan adds. Because that space isn’t really lived in, and “doesn’t really have that homey kind of a feel,” she says that when we’re down there, we’re more easily reminded of our vulnerabilities. You might not worry about being home alone when you’re on your cozy couch reading a book, but a trip down to the basement, she says, might make you think, “If God forbid there’s an intruder and I’m home alone, what am I going to do?” Yikes! How to Make Your Basement Your Friend If your basement gives you the creeps, you can rewire how your brain perceives it by making it feel more inviting and intentional. Here's how: Give It a Purpose “If your basement is just a storage space, it can feel cold and impersonal,” Yokota says. “Try adding a cozy, chill hangout nook, a workout corner, or even some decor and faux plants to make it feel like an extension of your home.” Improve the Lighting “Swap out harsh overhead bulbs for warm, layered lighting. Floor lamps, table lamps, LED battery-operated mini lamps, and/or motion-sensor lights that turn on right when you enter the space will make the space feel more welcoming,” Yokota says. Use Scent and Sound Adding a diffuser with a comforting scent or playing soft background noise (like white noise or music) can make the space feel more lived-in, Yokota says. Make It as “Homey” as Possible Bayramyan recommends doing whatever you can to make that area of your home “more comfortable, more calm, more soft.” She suggests everything from painting the area in softer colors to putting some lounge furniture down there. Psychological Approaches “The more time you spend in your basement in a relaxed state, the less scary it will feel,” Yokota says. “Play music, do an activity, or even just sit there for a few minutes at a time to help retrain your nervous system.” You can also speak directly to your inner child, Bayramyan says. Yes, she means out loud! “When you’re in that room, call upon your adult self—yourself at your age now—and remind your younger self, ‘I’m here with you. You’re safe. We’re just down here doing laundry. I’m going to finish up in five minutes, and we’re going to go up to our nice living room area.’” It may feel funny, but it’s powerful. “In the therapy world, we actually call that re-parenting yourself, where basically you kind of give your younger child the reassurance, the validation that maybe you did not get in your childhood,” Bayramyan explains. When to Seek Professional Help “If the fear is mild and occasional, it’s likely just a natural reaction, but if it’s intense and interfering with daily life, it might be worth exploring further,” says Yokota, who notes that cognitive behavioral therapy is particularly effective for specific fears and phobias. Bayramyan reiterates that if your fear of your basement is impacting your functioning or ability to engage in your day-to-day activities, then seeking help is a good idea. But if you just have the occasional urge to drop your laundry basket and run, keep this in mind: “Fear thrives on the unknown. The more you personalize and engage with your basement, the less scary it will feel,” Yokota says. “Instead of treating it like a forgotten zone, treat it like part of your home that deserves comfort and intention, just like any other room.”