Мужчина упрекнул больную жену в грязной стирке, когда она требовала отдыха

If you felt so sick that you had to go take a nap, only to have your spouse get mad over the laundry you still had to do, how would you handle that? This woman and her husband have four children, and she’s a stay-at-home mom, which she is super grateful for, as she calls it a luxury. But it’s exhausting for her to care for the kids and the household pretty much alone. Her husband has a job that requires him to travel for work Monday through Friday, meaning she has no help during the week at all from him. She has an autoimmune condition, and it is difficult for her to deal with that and the kids when they get sick. As a result, dishes and laundry tend to pile up. Sometimes, she can put it away as soon as it’s done, but that’s rare. Now, even though she’s constantly exhausted, she never takes naps in order to make up for her loss of sleep. There’s simply no time to fit them in her day. “When my husband is home on the weekends, I dedicate my time to catching up on housework or spending one-on-one time with some of the littles since I’m not able to do that during the week,” she explained. “This morning I woke up with terrible chest pain and can barely talk. It was obvious in my voice and how I was carrying myself that I didn’t feel well.” “I voiced it to my husband multiple times that I didn’t feel well and needed to go pick up medicine for the nebulizer. Never even [said] anything back or anything. As the day went on, about 4:00, I desperately needed to [lie] down.” Her husband had a random day off, so he was home. Her eyes were literally shutting on her, and so she mentioned to her husband that she had to take a nap. Instead of being worried about how sick she felt, her husband just pointed a finger at the two laundry baskets full of clothing on their floor. She asked her husband what he meant, and he replied that the laundry had to be done. She retorted that he was welcome to help her do it all. “Then I said, ‘You’re really going to point out laundry when I’m finally prioritizing getting rest? After this long, hard week of 3 sleepless nights and the fact that I’m not feeling well today? You want to point out laundry, but when do YOU ever help with it?'” she questioned him. “He says something along the lines of, ‘You’re really going to get this upset over a nap?’…He randomly takes naps when he’s home. Always.” Wow, her husband is the worst. How selfish for him to care about clean clothes over his wife’s well-being. Her husband doesn’t treat her like a partner; she’s just his maid. It’s also ridiculous to me that here he is on his day off, getting upset about the laundry when he could absolutely pitch in if he felt like it. What advice do you have for her? You can read the original post below. Sign up for Chip Chick’s newsletter and get exclusive stories like this delivered to your inbox.